While the world may have varying interpretations of love, the Bible provides us with its true meaning, rooted in the Creator of the Universe!
So, what is love really about? The Bible explains it using four Greek words, illustrating its many layers and complexity. They are agape, phileo, storge, and eros.
Contents
1. Agape Love
Agape love comes from deep within, valuing the one loved. It’s the highest and most noblest word for love in the Greek language, persisting even when the recipient doesn’t respond kindly. It’s driven by a strong desire for others’ well-being and motivates action.
This love embodies the concept of unconditional love, emphasizing selflessness, compassion, and goodwill towards others without expecting anything in return.
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
John 3:16
2. Phileo Love
Phileo represents a special connection or affinity towards someone or something, often centered around close companionship and mutual regard. It involves having a fondness, affection, or warmth towards someone, viewing them as a friend.
Everyone with me sends you greetings. Greet those who love us in the faith.
TITUS 3:15
3. Storge Love
Storge is a natural affection or innate obligation, reflecting the natural movement of the soul towards family members. It’s a gentle, enduring sentiment that emanates from a deep connection with something or someone dear, fostering a sense of contentment and comfort.
This love is vital as it nurtures stronger family bonds, promoting harmony, understanding, and support, while also fostering emotional stability, resilience, and cherished shared memories within the family.
Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves
ROMANS 12:10
4. Eros Love
Eros encompasses intense, consuming emotions commonly associated with romantic love, resembling the bond shared between a husband and wife. However, it remains a conditional form of love.
Yet, always bear in mind that the unmatched, unconditional Agape love of God surpasses all. So, you never have to settle for anything less!
Explore further insights on navigating healthy dating practices in our article titled “6 Convictions for Christian Dating.”
Connecting to Others
Exploring different types of love in the Bible helps us understand God better and connect more deeply with others. By embracing these forms of love, we reflect God’s love in our relationships and share His message of hope with others who need it.
Explore deeper insights into fostering deep relationships in our article titled “Building Eternal Relationships.”
Let’s keep learning about love and sharing it with everyone we meet!
Discussion Questions: Teens and Parents
- Which type of love do you think we encounter most often in school?
- Agape Love: Do you find it challenging to exhibit this type of love?
- Why do you think it’s difficult to practice Agape love? And why might it be easier to experience other forms of love?
- What steps can we take to cultivate Agape love in our lives?
Family Challenge
Let’s nurture our Agape love towards God and others by demonstrating acts of kindness towards those who may be difficult to love.
Parent Challenge
Hearts are moved where there is love.
- Show genuine interest in your teen’s struggles, daily life, and school activities.
- Initiate conversations and encourage your teen to do the same, fostering open communication.
- Dedicate quality time outside of church-related events to support and encourage them.
- Take an active interest in your teen’s hobbies and interests to strengthen your bond.
- Carefully listen to their concerns and offer guidance and support as needed.
A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.
John 13:34-35
